Archive for November, 2011

Dining For Good Living

Monday, November 21st, 2011

Approximately 130 guests gathered at the Villa Banquet Center, 2500 New Butler Road, New Castle, PA on November 18th for the Crisis Shelter’s eighth annual Dining For Good Living.  Darlene Medure and the Medure Family of Medure’s Catering, New Castle, PA http://www.medures.com/ hosted this exciting event.  Matthew Medure, 5 Star Chef and owner of Matthew’s of San Marco, Jacksonville, FL http://www.matthewsrestaurant.com/chef/and Restaurant Medure of Ponte Vedra, FL http://restaurantmedure.us/took us on a tour through the countries of Italy, France, Germany and Spain for an exquisite dinner paired with exceptional wines from Dendor Wine Management. http://www.dendorwine.com/

Exciting menu items included Grilled Duck Breast and Portebello on a Tortilla, Lobster Bisque, Wild King Salmon on Creamed Leeks, Diver Scallop en Croute, Cepes Mushroom Duxelle, Butternut Squash Risotto, and Roasted Banana Crepe with Chocolate Mousse.

Thank you to our sponsors:

Event – Forever Broadcasting
Sommelier – Berner International
Reception & Dessert – Greenville Savings Bank
Flowers – Butz Flowers & Gifts
Invitations – Columbia Gas
Epicurean – Nancy & Ron Bergey
Wine Flight – Luxenberg, Garbett, Kelly & George, P.C.

Partners in Gastronomy:
Avalon Nursing Center
Bookminders
Peter & Amy Labi-Carando
ESB Bank – Shenango, Neshannock, Ellwood City
Harry & Debbie Grafton
Marvin & Gerry Lebby
Matty & Darlene Medure
Sydney & Dottie Paul
Dale & Michele Perelman
Thomas & Diane Piccione
Jonathan & Nanette Solomon
Curtis & Jean Speight
Larry & Janet Verone
Frank & Beth Verterano
Bill & Betty Zbegan

 

 

Paint For Peace Calendars

Wednesday, November 16th, 2011

(cover of the 2012 Paint For Peace calendar)

A 2012, 8 1/2 x 11, Paint For Peace calendar is available to purchase at the Crisis Shelter.  Each month contains one of the 12 winning pieces of art submitted for the Paint For Peace Art Show that was held in conjunction with the Crisis Shelter’s annual Domestic Violence Rally.

The calendars are $20 each and make wonderful gifts.  For $2.00 extra we can mail a calendar right to your door.  To order, please contact us at info@crisisshelter.org or simply send a check for $20 (or $22) to the Crisis Shelter, 1218 West State Street, New Castle, PA 16101 for each calendar ordered.  Please be sure to indicate on the check that you are purchasing a Paint For Peace calendar.

Media Exasterbates Violence

Wednesday, November 9th, 2011

Guest Opinion, New Castle News – by Dayna Shaw Sear, Executive Director, October, 2011

According to research published in September conducted by the University at Buffalo, the portrayal of women – and men – in popular media has moved from depicting celebrities and models as “sexy” to sexualizing them in terms of portraying them as ready and available for sex and as passive objects.  This is problematic because it showcases a decisive narrowing of media representations – particularly of women. 

Sexualized portrayals of women have been found to legitimize or exacerbate violence against women and girls as well as sexual harassment and anti-women attitudes among men and boys.  Other negative consequences of this cultural shift are increased rates of body dissatisfaction, eating disorders, depression and suicide.  The study also found an alarming increase in frequency and intensity of sexualized images in the media and pop culture over the past 20 years.

When do we as a society say enough – things have gone too far?  When do we as a society stand up and start attacking this problem?  When do we as a society refuse to watch television and movies or purchase music and magazines that promote violent behaviors and portray people as sexualized objects? 

Susan G. Komen has helped to turn October into a global attack on breast cancer.  With the myriad of pink adorning football fields, grocery stores and television commercials during the month of October, it is hard to imagine that the issue of violence against women – and for that matter men, youth and children – is being recognized during the month as well. 

Not discounting the need to generate awareness regarding the 183,000 women who are diagnosed with breast cancer each year or the 1 in 8 women who will be affected by the disease in their lifetime, I would like to point out that 1.3 million women and 835,000 men are affected by domestic violence each year and 1 in 4 women and 1 in 9 men will be affected by domestic violence in their lifetime.  On average, more than three women are murdered by their intimate partners every day.

Additionally, according to the National Crime Victimization Survey conducted in 2006, more than 600 women are raped or sexually assaulted every day.  The Justice Department estimates that 1 in 5 women will experience rape or attempted rape during their college years and that less than 5% of these rapes will be reported.  When looking at teen statistics, 1 in 5 female high school students reports being physically and/or sexually abused by a dating partner and 1 in 3 teens report knowing a friend or peer who has been hit, punched, slapped, choked or physically hurt by their partner.  1 in 4 girls and 1 in 6 boys will be sexually abused before they reach the age of 18. 

Violence against women cost companies $72.8 million annually due to lost productivity alone and most murder-suicides with three or more victims involve a “family annihilator” which falls under the umbrella of domestic violence.  These frightening statistics are just a few of the many that can be recited. 

Given the widespread devastating effects of domestic violence and sexual violence, it is hard to believe that the nation is not saying enough – this must change.  Even just taking into consideration the effects of these issues on our youth, our future leaders and influencers, we should be motivated to initiate change.  As we adorn our pink for the global fight against breast cancer, let it also be a reminder that there is also a global fight being made to eliminate violence.

Preventing Murder

Wednesday, November 9th, 2011

With a bit of congressional support, a simple test can save many lives.  The Crisis Shelter is set to implement this Lethality Assessment Program here in Lawrence County.

By Editorial, Friday, October 28,8:00 PM

IN 2009, ONE-FOURTH of the District’s 144 homicides were linked to abusive relationships. The following year, according to the advocacy group D. C. Safe, the number of domestic-violence homicides fell by half.

In Maryland, there has been a 41 percent drop in the number of homicides linked to domestic violence over the past three years. 

The rate of violent crime overall has been declining, but not that fast. The dramatic drop in domestic-violence deaths in Maryland and the District is due largely to a simple but effective tool that helps identify women most at risk of being killed by their husbands or boyfriends. It is a tool that, if used nationwide, could save hundreds of the approximately 1,200 women killed every year by partners or former partners.

To read more click on the link below.

Preventing murder